Stupid Boys

This blog originally posted Thursday, September 14, 2006

Current mood:Disgusted Category: Life

OK, it's been awhile since I last wrote, but family, work, and school keeps me busy.
I previously wrote about stupid girls. I still feel very strongly about that subject, because a lot of heartache could be prevented if girls wheren't so stupid about the men they chose.

Now, for the guys. Let's get this out in the open: "Just because you happen to have the right physical parts doesn't make you a man." "Just because you are able to have sex with a girl doesn't make you a man" The more girls that you have sex with does not make you more of a man."

If you are a guy who is sexually active with a girl you are not married to, YOU ARE NOT A MAN!!! Any dog can rut with female of his species. You may be male but you are not a man. Any guy who has had sex with a girl and gotten her pregnant without marrying her is even less than a dog.

When are we going to learn as a society that a few moments of intense pleasure is not worth a lifetime of pain for the unintended child? What is it going to take for people to realize that raising a child without a father is emotionally damaging to the child? Oh, and abortion isn't the answer either. That is emotionally damaging to the mother, not to mention the destruction of a life.

So there is your choice, boys, cause pain and difficulty for a child or cause pain and difficulty for the girl you were with. All so you could get some temporary physical enjoyment, that you could frankly take care of other ways that you probably already figured out in your early teens.

Guys, it is time to 'man-up' here. Be a man. Take responsibility for your actions. Just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it anywhere, any way and with anyone you want. You want to be a man? Then respect the girl you are dating. You want to be a man? Don't date a girl who you aren't interested in as a person. You want to be a man? Don't have sex with someone who you aren't committed to for life. You want to be a man? Then quit being a whiny wussy and get busy making yourself a better person, the kind of responsible, dedicated, mature person that a father and husband ought to be, the kind of person that a good woman would want.

How hard is this? Very hard. It's very easy just to follow your hormones around doing whatever feels good whenever it feels good to do it. Just watch any dog. Of course, they eat their own vomit and feces too. Yes this is hard. That is what it means to be a man: sacrificial love for your wife and children, strong loving guidance, hard work to provide for your family, willingness to commit for a lifetime of hard (but rewarding) duty. Any loser can ditch these responsibilities. He may be a male, but he ain't a man.

Duty., Responsibility. Honor. Integrity. Respect. Sacrifice. Strength. Commitment. Protect the weak. Faithfulness. Generosity. Discipline. Duty. Perseverance. Humility. Fortitude. Dedication. Courage. Wisdom. Fidelity.

This calls for strength. This calls for warriors. This calls for men.

No wussies need apply.