This blog originally posted 04/12/09 as an article I wrote for our church newsletter
I hate car repair.
There. I said it. I’m glad it’s out in the open.
Now you’ll probably want to revoke my ‘man card’ because guys are supposed to like tinkering on automobiles as if there is some mystic link between testosterone and grease. Maybe it’s genetic, but the sordid truth is: I hate car repair.
Wait, don’t take my man card yet. I have changed my own oil, I’ve put in new alternators in three cars, and even changed the clutch on a four wheel drive Jeep once. I can do it, I just don’t like it.
The thing that most bothers me about car repair is the constant maintenance. If you want to keep your car running, there are all these things that you have to do to keep your car running well. You are supposed to have regular oil changes, check the spark plugs, rotate your tires, and change the blinker fluid or some such.
What a pain. There always seems to be something that must be done. You have to remember to do it, schedule the mechanic, and then pay for it.
The funny thing is, with my new ministry job here at MVCC, I now have to deal with maintenance on the church van.
During the last couple of oil changes on the church van, the mechanic kept telling us that we had moisture in the oil. “Big deal,” I think, oil is wet, isn’t it? However, the truth is, since we only drive the church van a few miles each week and only take it on long trips about twice a year, the engine wasn’t getting hot enough to burn off the condensation in the oil. Our mechanic went on to say that, if we didn’t take the van out and really drive it once in awhile, the moisture would eventually damage the engine.
That seems counterintuitive, doesn’t it. You’d think that driving it more would wear down the engine faster and driving it less would make it last longer. However, it seems to be like a muscle, if you want to keep it healthy, you have to use it.
There is a truth here that applies to our lives. Generosity. Courage. Faith. Love. Kindness. All of the things about our humanity that we call good require us to get them out on the road and open them up once in awhile.
When you live your life wrapped up in yourself, never venturing far from your own needs and concerns, you begin to get moisture in your engine. Your goodness starts to rust. Your trust in others begins to break down. Your love begins to wear out.
Everyone knows the bitter person, the cynical pessimist, the miserable fellow who is old before his time. You just don’t want to be around these people because they seem to suck the very life from you. These are the people that failed to keep using their good gifts and they just broke down.
“So”, you ask, “how do I get these out on the open road?”
It takes action…purposeful action. You have to make the choice to say, “No,” to those things that focus on you and begin saying, “Yes,” to those that focus on others. Begin to follow the call of God in the Bible, serving others before yourself. In Philippians, it says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but to the interests of others.” Following God is not about sitting back in church pews looking forward to heaven, it is about action, bringing a little of God’s kingdom here, now.
There are many practical ways to do this. This week, turn off the television and spend some time in real conversation with your family. Go to church and ask about ways that you can serve. Take the money that you were going to use to buy that new upgraded toy that you really don’t need, and donate it to church or a charity. Buy some groceries for the family in need up the street. Take your group of friends and volunteer at Habitat for Humanity or the Phoenix Rescue Mission. These things are a little hard at first, but with practice, you will be going longer and farther than you ever realize possible, and your life will be better and healthier for it.
The good news is, as we have taken the van out monthly for longer drives, the most recent oil change showed it to be in good shape.
The great news is that you can do this with your life too.
There. I said it. I’m glad it’s out in the open.
Now you’ll probably want to revoke my ‘man card’ because guys are supposed to like tinkering on automobiles as if there is some mystic link between testosterone and grease. Maybe it’s genetic, but the sordid truth is: I hate car repair.
Wait, don’t take my man card yet. I have changed my own oil, I’ve put in new alternators in three cars, and even changed the clutch on a four wheel drive Jeep once. I can do it, I just don’t like it.
The thing that most bothers me about car repair is the constant maintenance. If you want to keep your car running, there are all these things that you have to do to keep your car running well. You are supposed to have regular oil changes, check the spark plugs, rotate your tires, and change the blinker fluid or some such.
What a pain. There always seems to be something that must be done. You have to remember to do it, schedule the mechanic, and then pay for it.
The funny thing is, with my new ministry job here at MVCC, I now have to deal with maintenance on the church van.
During the last couple of oil changes on the church van, the mechanic kept telling us that we had moisture in the oil. “Big deal,” I think, oil is wet, isn’t it? However, the truth is, since we only drive the church van a few miles each week and only take it on long trips about twice a year, the engine wasn’t getting hot enough to burn off the condensation in the oil. Our mechanic went on to say that, if we didn’t take the van out and really drive it once in awhile, the moisture would eventually damage the engine.
That seems counterintuitive, doesn’t it. You’d think that driving it more would wear down the engine faster and driving it less would make it last longer. However, it seems to be like a muscle, if you want to keep it healthy, you have to use it.
There is a truth here that applies to our lives. Generosity. Courage. Faith. Love. Kindness. All of the things about our humanity that we call good require us to get them out on the road and open them up once in awhile.
When you live your life wrapped up in yourself, never venturing far from your own needs and concerns, you begin to get moisture in your engine. Your goodness starts to rust. Your trust in others begins to break down. Your love begins to wear out.
Everyone knows the bitter person, the cynical pessimist, the miserable fellow who is old before his time. You just don’t want to be around these people because they seem to suck the very life from you. These are the people that failed to keep using their good gifts and they just broke down.
“So”, you ask, “how do I get these out on the open road?”
It takes action…purposeful action. You have to make the choice to say, “No,” to those things that focus on you and begin saying, “Yes,” to those that focus on others. Begin to follow the call of God in the Bible, serving others before yourself. In Philippians, it says, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but to the interests of others.” Following God is not about sitting back in church pews looking forward to heaven, it is about action, bringing a little of God’s kingdom here, now.
There are many practical ways to do this. This week, turn off the television and spend some time in real conversation with your family. Go to church and ask about ways that you can serve. Take the money that you were going to use to buy that new upgraded toy that you really don’t need, and donate it to church or a charity. Buy some groceries for the family in need up the street. Take your group of friends and volunteer at Habitat for Humanity or the Phoenix Rescue Mission. These things are a little hard at first, but with practice, you will be going longer and farther than you ever realize possible, and your life will be better and healthier for it.
The good news is, as we have taken the van out monthly for longer drives, the most recent oil change showed it to be in good shape.
The great news is that you can do this with your life too.
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